Am I having
what she's having ?
When we hear the way others describe their sexual experiences we can find ourselves comparing.
I have spoken to many women about their sex lives and they often tell me that there have been times when they didn’t feel like they were normal. Like there must be something wrong with them, because they find it so hard to orgasm, or they find it hard to get into the mood or to enjoy sex compared to everyone else.
In itself, being aware of your own experiences isn’t altogether a negative process to go through. Especially if you’ve have been experiencing pain during sex or struggling in some way, then this may encourage you to seek out help.
However, sometimes we compare our pleasure, our desires, our sex lives and our sexual satisfaction to that of others and the consequences can be damaging your sex life more than you realise.